It took a program on autism, a bit of googling, and a number of doctors’ appointments for the Lidcombe father to get an official diagnosis that his son had autism.
Mr Doherty is one of the 2.5 million Australians providing care and support to a family member or friend and one of the many thousands who the NSW Government is recognising during National Carers Week, October 16-22, thanking them for their selfless, ongoing support to those they care for.
Caring for his now 15-year-old son is his number one priority and he’s passionate about supporting other carers – and dads – like him.
“I remember someone described me as a carer and I thought ‘oh that’s interesting, I’ve never thought of myself like that before’,” Mr Doherty said.
“But once I did it made the whole carer experience a lot easier. I reached out to other carers in the same boat as me and accessed more support services.”
The proud day says Alex is “really, really smart, great at mathematics and music, is really funny and has this great dry wit”, and has already achieved so much.
“It might take four or five years later than other kids, but eventually your kid will have a win, a success that you can be really proud of. There’s no better feeling than that,” Mr Doherty said.
“It’s about sharing the wins and losses with your carer community. Give back as much as you take – because we all keep each other going.
“I’ve learnt you need to advocate for the person you care for because you’re their best bet at getting what they need in life to be happy and successful.”
If you’re a carer and looking for support, visit carergateway.gov.au or call 1800 422 737.
Father praised during National Carers Week
HIS son, Alex, was just one-year-old when Chris Doherty’s rollercoaster ride as a carer began.